Saturday, September 6, 2014

First Day of Kindergarten: So Far So Good!

The day finally arrived. We all managed to stay calm and even got out of the house in time to capture the required First Day of School Chalkboard Pinterest Photo.

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Anthony seemed really excited and proud. I'm so glad we were able to spend some time exploring the school over the summer, so he was very familiar with the environment by the time the big day arrived. 

Backpack on, ready to go!

Yay!
Just another PPS student. We were a little early and had to wait for the bell to ring.


Finally it was time to find our class. All the kindergarten teachers were standing outside their rooms and greeted each little student as they came in. 

Mrs. Aase had the room so nice and personalized for her students. Each little one had a place to hang his backpack and a spot at one of the 3 tables. The class is smaller than we expected- only about 20 students. 


Anthony thought the whole thing was hilarious. He sat at his spot and colored his picture. He also investigated the scissors and glue stick immediately.

Mrs. Aase introduced Ms. Nicole as her assistant and didn't single Anthony out or say that she was there just for him. That was awesome.

After all the kids had a chance to get settled, Mrs. Aase addressed the class and parents. She welcomed everyone and said that she was a little nervous-- was anyone else nervous too?

She asked the parents and kids if they had anything they wanted to say or ask. A few parents spoke, saying that their older kids had Mrs. Aase and loved her, or that they hoped all the kids would listen to what Mrs. Aase and Ms. Nicole said today.

Then....Mrs. Aase announced that the Mommies and Daddies were going to leave now, but Mrs. Aase and Ms Nicole were there to help. The mood in the room shifted suddenly. A few kids burst into tears or reached out as their parents left.  Anthony gripped on to my leg like a monkey! But eventually we all extricated ourselves and walked out into the hallway, greeted by PTA members offering tissues. As we peeked in the classroom window, all the kids seemed calmed down. In all there were probably more tears from the parents than the kids.

Paul and I went out to breakfast and then spent the day at home. The time went so fast- before we knew it it was 2:00 and time for pickup. We joined the other parents waiting in the lobby and watched as each class came out, led by their teachers. It was amazing- they looked so orderly, holding a partner's hand and walking nicely just like they'd been doing it for years. We spotted Anthony bringing up the rear next to Ms. Nicole. They all marched into the gym and sat down on the floor. Then we were allowed in to pick up our kindergarteners and take them home.

Ms. Aase said he had a great day. The principal called us over to tell us that in fact, he needed Ms. Nicole's help less than some of the other kids in the class. In the morning, he participated and followed directions with the other kids, and even ate some of his lunch. By the afternoon, he had a harder time and didn't want to go to PE. Ms. Nicole said he was able to tell her that he was nervous. All in all it was a very successful start to the school year. We said our goodbyes and set off to enjoy our weekend.  

Operation Kindergarten Day One: Mission Accomplished!

Thursday, September 4, 2014

Countdown to Kindergarten: Tomorrow's the Day!

Tomorrow Anthony begins his Portland Public Schools journey. The rest of the school started on Tuesday, but they ease the kindergarteners into it by starting them on a Friday. At first I thought that would be strange, but now I'm so glad it's that way. One day seems manageable. Five days in a row seems overwhelming!

But the backpack is packed, lunchbox is labeled, and our big boy is tucked in safe and sound. We've done our homework, so to speak, and now it's time to let it happen. 


Here's Anthony at our meeting with his teacher Ms. Aase yesterday. We first met her at the kindergarten open house a week ago, and we loved her right away. She is so warm and kind. Her room is decorated with owls- it's pretty much impossible not to love her.

At the Open House, we also met Anthony's helper, Ms. Nicole.  I'm not sure what her official title is- paraprofessional? Student teacher?  She's a recent college grad, and being in Ms. Aase's room will be her first "real" job in teaching. We liked her right away too. When she told us she has taken two years of sign language, I just about fell over I was so thrilled. We were worried that no one would be able to understand Anthony's signs, and were still trying to come up with a good way to convey them, and then here she is.

Ms. Nicole made a visual schedule so that Anthony will know what to expect on the first day.


From what I can tell, kindergarten seems to involve a lot of "getting ready" to do things and also going to the bathroom.

Tomorrow Paul and I both have the day off from work, so after we drop Anthony off we'll have the whole day to be neurotic together. What should we do?

I hope all of our little friends near and far have a wonderful first day/week of school. 

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Preschool Graduate

Last week Anthony graduated from preschool, AKA "The Big House" at In a Child's Path. 

He and 6 other little friends are moving on to kindergarten.  

Anthony started at The Little House when he was just 4 months old.


He's grown and learned so much since then.

But even more importantly, he had fun, felt secure, and was accepted and valued for who he is. What more could you ask for in a preschool experience?

For the graduation main event, the kids put on a nice show with songs.  
  Each graduate came out as the others "hollered" for them. 

Then teacher Anke gave each child a certificate and said what was special about each one.


Anke said she wasn't going to cry, but she got pretty choked up when it was Anthony's turn. She's as proud of him as we are. She told me, "Never stop advocating for him. He deserves that." Don't worry about that, Anke!

Certified "Ready for Kindergarten" 

Congratulations, Anthony! We are so proud of you!

Sunday, August 17, 2014

Countdown to Kindergarten: The Back to School Aisle

As the air begins to chill and the days become shorter, like so many Vaux's swifts arriving at the Chapman School, Portland parents flock to the Target at Cascade Station.


Their mission is clear...






We wish them well.

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Countdown to Kindergarten: IEP Meeting

Anthony’s kindergarten IEP (Individualized Education Plan) meeting was held way back in April. In 3 weeks we'll be putting the plan into action.

There were 12 people around the table, including Paul and me, the Portland Public Schools (PPS) transition coordinator, a physical therapist, speech therapist, school psychologist, general ed kindergarten teacher, 3 special education teachers, the special education program administrator, and our friend who took notes. Whew!

It went well, and his placement will be in the general education kindergarten with “pullouts” (mostly for group speech therapy) no more than 11% of the time. He will have an aide with him in the classroom. Everything we had hoped for. Honestly, it was not at all the contentious battle we feared it might be. Many families have to fight for their child’s right to be included in general education, but that was not our experience at all.

Sitting outside the principal's office. Let's hope this doesn't happen too much this year!
We’d like to take credit for the outcome, but really we are lucky in that PPS is committed to inclusion for students with disabilities. We know families in other school districts who are just as involved in advocating for their kids who have had a much rougher time. Probably the most heated part of the meeting was when we got into a big discussion about why cutting with scissors- specifically cutting out a gingerbread man- is so important that it warrants a goal on the IEP. But I’m good with it now.



Anthony's Goals
Here are some of the goals Anthony will work on this year. I’ve paraphrased them-- the actual goals and objectives are written using more education jargon. It’s important to note that he only needs to show reasonable progress on each goal. That is, they’re not going to kick him out of general ed if he can only count to 15 instead of 50 by the end of the school year. The goals are broken down into small steps. For example, for his sight reading goal, step 1 is to memorize 10 sight words, then 20, and eventually 50.

Reading (75 minutes a week of extra help):
-       Learn 50 sight words. He can show he’s learned the words either by using sign or spoken words.
-       Show understanding of a story by sequencing 2-3 parts of the story using pictures and pairing a pre-made picture to the correct story.


Math (75 minutes a week of extra help):
-       Rote count to 50, recognize numbers 1-20. As with sight words, he can show he’s learned them through sign or spoken words.
-       Understand the basic language concepts of math: more, less, bigger, smaller, in all, total, equals
-       Identify five basic shapes - square, circle, triangle, rectangle, and star by number of sides and corners.



Fine Motor/Handwriting (1 hour a month of extra help plus 8 hours per year of OT)
Cut using self-releasing scissors within 3/4 inch of the line
Step 1. A straight line
Step 2. A circle
Step 3. A star
Step 4. A gingerbread man (seriously!)

Write his first name using a tripod grip
Step 1. Trace his first name
Step 2. Copy his first name
Step 3. Write his first name from memory

Write the upper case letters and lower case letters of the alphabet
Step 1. By tracing
Step 2. By copying
Step 3. Independently

Color an object using multiple colors and staying within 3/4 inch of the lines.

Create a story by placing pictures in sequence (This one seems out of place but it's a writing goal, adapted for him.)



Communication, language, and self-help goals
These include things like getting dressed independently, playing cooperatively with peers, initiating play, asking for help, asking a peer to stop doing something he doesn’t like, etc. He’ll also be working on articulation in speech therapy.


Additional Supports and Accommodations
·         PT consult to general ed for classroom setup and evacuation plan
·         Assisted communication consultation and materials
·         SLP consultation to general education teacher
·         Preferential seating near teacher and surrounded by supportive peers
·         Visual supports for schedule and directions
·         Adult assistance for "self-help"


So that’s that. He's ready. We're ready. Bring it on!

Sunday, July 6, 2014

A Very Portland 4th

Wow, this is the longest I've ever gone without a new blog post. I have lots of photos and news about kindergarten to share, so I'll try to catch up over the next few weeks. For now, here's s look at how we spent the 4th this year.


We started out with a bike ride to the neighborhood parade.  We got a bit of a late start as usual, so we only caught the tail end. 
"Hey, wait up!" 

 But that was okay by Anthony, because the parade ended up at the playground.


There are lots of neighborhood parades like this around town. Kids decorate bikes and wagons and usually a fire truck, popsicles and hot dogs can be found. Very small-town fun! 



 Later we had the neighbors over for a BBQ and some backyard shenanigans.



Then it was time for [legal, enjoyed from a safe distance] fireworks.






 As I looked over the photos, I noticed Anthony had 4 wardrobe changes throughout the day. That's how you know you've had a good time! We hope your holiday was a good one too.